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Vuyo Ngcakani
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Moving Close to My Grandkids Was the Best Decision I Ever Made

And I’ve made a couple of doozies — Life is a series of decisions. Some are small like what colour socks are you going to wear today. Others are bigger like what make of car are are going to buy. Then there are life-changing ones like whether you should ask this woman to marry you. Unfortunately, many have…

Ageism

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Moving Close to My Grandkids Was the Best Decision I Ever Made
Moving Close to My Grandkids Was the Best Decision I Ever Made
Ageism

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Published in The Dad Vault

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Why I Want to Mentor Boys to Be Good Dads

The stats on fatherless homes are sobering — For as long as I can remember I’ve always wanted to be a dad. I recall playing games with my sisters where I would be the dad, going to work every day, or taking out the garbage. I have fond memories of those days. A bit about me I grew up in Botswana and…

Fatherless

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Why I Want to Mentor Boys to Be Good Dads
Why I Want to Mentor Boys to Be Good Dads
Fatherless

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Husbands, Don’t Ask Your Wife Why She’s Crying

Don't worry, she’ll tell you and you might not like it — You know, sometimes as men, we are just clueless. Case in point, take a look at this well-known story from the Bible. Now this man used to go up year by year from his city to worship and to sacrifice to the LORD of hosts at Shiloh, where the two…

Marriage

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Husbands, Don’t Ask Your Wife Why She’s Crying
Husbands, Don’t Ask Your Wife Why She’s Crying
Marriage

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Published in Koinonia

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Your Spouse Does Not Complete You, They Complement You

You are complete in Christ — Many of us have seen the movie, Jerry Maguire. In one scene Tom Cruise is attempting to convince Renee Zellweger of his undying love for her and what she means to him. Here’s the scene: It’s beautiful, isn’t it? How many of you ladies wished that your man had…

Partnerships

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Your Spouse Does Not Complete You, They Complement You
Your Spouse Does Not Complete You, They Complement You
Partnerships

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Published in The Dad Vault

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What I Regret I Didn’t Do When My Kids Still Lived At Home

You don’t have all the time in the world — Being a father has been the greatest duty of my life. Raising my children into people that other people like because of who they are makes me proud. My wife and I did a great job. They are 25, 23, and 21 years old now and each is living a…

Parenting

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What I Regret I Didn’t Do When My Kids Still Lived At Home
What I Regret I Didn’t Do When My Kids Still Lived At Home
Parenting

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Published in Writers’ Blokke

·Jan 9

I Had No Idea That Idiot, Imbecile, and Moron were Clinical Terms

It’s hard to believe we thought ‘mentally retarded’ was better Idiot, Imbecile, and Moron Which one of the three words listed above have you used recently? Did you really know what you were saying when you called someone that. Personally, I’m more likely to call someone an idiot than any of the other words…

Swearing

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I Had No Idea That Idiot, Imbecile, and Moron were Clinical Terms
I Had No Idea That Idiot, Imbecile, and Moron were Clinical Terms
Swearing

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Published in Crow’s Feet

·Jan 4

Our Grandsons First Sleepover Was a Huge Success

He had so much fun that he didn’t want to leave — We were nervous but excited. Four days before, our daughter and her husband had asked us if we wanted Dakota to have a sleepover. Of course, we said yes. The goal was to see how Dakota, 3, would do should his parents take a night or two away. We prepared…

Grandparents

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Our Grandsons First Sleepover Was a Huge Success
Our Grandsons First Sleepover Was a Huge Success
Grandparents

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Published in ILLUMINATION

·Jan 2

2023 Will Be the Year That I Make It

I have no idea what that looks like, but I’m going for it — Most of the time, the passage of time is routine. On a daily basis, we go to work, get home and have supper; then, we might sit and watch TV. All the while, we tell our significant other about our day. If we’re blessed enough to have kids, we help…

2023

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2023 Will Be the Year That I Make It
2023 Will Be the Year That I Make It
2023

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Published in Koinonia

·Jan 2

Is There Such A Thing as a Good Christian?

If there is, what does it mean to be one? — My daughter asked me an interesting question recently. She asked, “Do you think you have to go through trials to become a good Christian?” She went on to explain that the reason for her question was that many of the Christians that we admire overcame difficulties and showed great faith…

Christianity

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Is There Such A Thing as a Good Christian?
Is There Such A Thing as a Good Christian?
Christianity

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Published in Koinonia

·Dec 5, 2022

Wives, Let Your Husbands Lead as the Lord Leads Them

Husbands, make it easy for your wife to do so — I have a strong-willed wife. She is also more of a risk-taker than I am. When we first married and moved into our first home, I wanted to close all the windows at night because I didn’t want intruders to have easy access. …

Christianity

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Wives, Let Your Husbands Lead as the Lord Leads Them
Wives, Let Your Husbands Lead as the Lord Leads Them
Christianity

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Vuyo Ngcakani

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writer, husband for 26 years, father of 3, grandfather of 2

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